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One of my favourite parts of wedding planning? Helping couples communicate their vibe to guests.

This photo was taken at a spring wedding in the French countryside, and I love it because it captures dress codes perfectly in action.

You’ve got:

– The teal blazer + tailored suit: Smart, polished, and perfect for “cocktail attire”

– The flowing floral maxi: Romantic, garden-party ready

– And then… the baby blue ballgown: Full princess moment, and she absolutely owned it

Here’s the thing: when couples put “garden party chic” or “dress to impress” on an invitation, it means something different to everyone. And that’s the magic.

As a planner, I always tell couples: give your guests a direction, not a rulebook. A few words on your website or invite like “think linen, florals, and comfortable shoes for the gravel” or “we’d love to see you in cocktail attire and colour” helps everyone feel confident.

But also? If one guest shows up in a ballgown and another in a sharp suit, it just adds to the texture of the day. Weddings should feel like a collection of people you love, expressing themselves.

Pro tip from Georgia de France:

If your venue is outdoors like this one, add one line to your dress code: “heels and gravel don’t mix, so bring flats or wedges.” Your guests’ ankles will thank you.

At the end of the day, the best dress code is one that makes your people feel comfortable, celebratory, and ready to dance. Whether that’s in a ballgown, a suit, or a sundress.

What’s the dress code for your wedding? I’m helping couples with wording all the time — click here to chat now.